You deserve great sex

I help women love their bodies, create more intimate relationships, and have shameless sex.

HI! I’M RENA.

From the courtroom
to the bedroom

As a Deputy District Attorney specializing in sex crimes for Los Angeles County for 14 years, I got to see firsthand the incredible capacity we have to rewrite our narratives if we’re simply given a safe space.

Since 2020, I have been providing a safe space for women to liberate themselves from shame and discover deeper intimacy as a coach, author, and speaker.

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MY BOOK

The Sex You Want

When it comes to relationships, our society has plenty of expectations. We're supposed to know how to speak up for ourselves in bed, be caring partners, and, of course, love ourselves first. But no one tells us how to actually do all those things, and we are left feeling unsatisfied, confused, and ashamed when we don't measure up. Read more

“This book should be required reading for every sexual being!”

Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.
Author of Becoming Cliterate

“A gorgeous pathway out of shame, guilt, and self-doubt.”

Regena Thomashauer
New York Times best-selling author

“The best sex you can possibly have starts with authenticity, and Rena Martine proves it.”

Emily Morse
Founder, Sex With Emily

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Want to interview me for your podcast or publication, or book me as a speaker or guest teacher for your event or workshop? As a trial attorney-turned-educator and TEDx speaker, I’ll present a compelling case that inspires your audience to step into their own power. Get in touch.

Shameless

coaching

Have you ever felt shame when it comes to your body, your sexuality, or your relationships?

Maybe you have sexual fantasies you’d never dream of saying out loud.

Maybe your religious upbringing is seeping into your sex life.

Maybe you have trouble opening up to your partner.

Maybe you feel insecure about (or disconnected from) your body.

Maybe you’re dealing with feelings of abandonment after a breakup.

Maybe you’re carrying the weight of trauma from your childhood or a past relationship.

Or you simply feel like there’s got to be more to life than what you’re currently experiencing.

Shameless coaching is an intimate 8-week coaching program grounded in evidence-based techniques to help you love your body, experience deep intimacy, and have great sex shame-free.

The Sex Drive Reset

A free, jam-packed lesson of thought exercises and practical tips to help you discover the sex you want!

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IF YOU’RE CONSIDERING COACHING

Ready to rewrite your story around intimacy?

So you’ve read all the juicy details on my Shameless Coaching program and you’re ready to begin your journey toward deeper intimacy and liberating yourself from shame?

First of all, I’m so excited you want to make yourself a priority! Unlike most sex or relationship coaches, I use a holistic approach: mind, body, and soul. Due to the intimate nature of this work, it’s vital to make sure we’re a perfect fit before we dive into working together.